Father,I have other plans for my life

Father, I want you to know the full situation.

I have experienced bullying and physical abuse,

humiliation at home and outside,

and had to leave Ukraine to survive.

Even after leaving, harassment continued online.

All this has affected my health:

autoimmune disease, psoriasis, heart problems, and thyroid issues.

In our building, there were drug addicts who constantly targeted me and my sister,

and even caused conflicts with my stepfather.

They called my mother repeatedly, but she, being a doctor, did not respond to nonsense.

I will not let these circumstances hold me back.

I have my own plans:

to get a new smartphone,

to buy a gaming console,

to prepare my carry-on bag,

to learn English,

to study for a profession,

and one day to get married.

I even changed my hairstyle to leave the past behind,

and from January 1st, I may wear a new pajama and try to forget everything that happened.

But there is one problem:

my parents constantly make me feel guilty for everything,

even for loving a man who resembles me, a single brunette.

These are the facts and my plans.

I do not ask for permission.

I am informing you.