I Cannot Love Thee!

I CANNOT love thee, tho' thy soul

Be one which all good thoughts control;

Altho' thy eyes be starry bright,

And the gleams of golden light

Fall upon thy silken hair,

And thy forehead, broad and fair;

Something of a cold disgust,

(Wonderful, and most unjust,)

Something of a sullen fear

Weighs my heart when thou art near;

And my soul, which cannot twine

Thought or sympathy with thine,

With a coward instinct tries

To hide from thy enamour'd eyes,

Wishing for a sudden blindness

To escape those looks of kindness;

Sad she folds her shivering wings

From the love thy spirit brings,

Like a chainéd thing, caress'd

By the hand it knows the best,

By the hand which, day by day,

Visits its imprison'd stay,

Bringing gifts of fruit and blossom

From the green earth's plenteous bosom;

All but that for which it pines

In those narrow close confines,

With a sad and ceaseless sigh--

Wild and wingéd Liberty!

Can it be, no instinct dwells

In th' immortal soul, which tells

That thy love, oh! human brother,

Is unwelcome to another?

Can the changeful wavering eye,

Raised to thine in forced reply,--

Can the cold constrainéd smile,

Shrinking from thee all the while,--

Satisfy thy heart, or prove

Such a likeness of true love?

Seems to me, that I should guess

By what a world of bitterness,

By what a gulf of hopeless care,

Our two hearts divided were:

Seems to me that I should know

All the dread that lurk'd below,

By want of answer found

In the voice's trembling sound;

By the unresponsive gaze;

By the smile which vainly plays,

In whose cold imperfect birth

Glows no fondness, lives no mirth;

By the sigh, whose different tone

Hath no echo of thine own;

By the hand's cold clasp, which still

Held as not of its free will,

Shrinks, as it for freedom yearn'd;--

That my love was unreturn'd.

When thy tongue (ah! woe is me!)

Whispers love-vows tenderly,

Mine is shaping, all unheard,

Fragments of some withering word,

Which, by its complete farewell,

Shall divide us like a spell!

And my heart beats loud and fast,

Wishing that confession past;

And the tide of anguish rises,

Till its strength my soul surprises,

And the reckless words, unspoken,

Nearly have the silence broken,

With a gush like some wild river,--

"Oh! depart, depart for ever!"

But my faltering courage fails,

And my drooping spirit quails;

So sweet-earnest looks thy smile

Full of tenderness the while,

And with such strange pow'r are gifted

The eyes to which my own are lifted;

So my faint heart dies away,

And my lip can nothing say,

And I long to be alone,--

For I weep when thou are gone!

Yes, I weep, but then my soul

Free to ponder o'er the whole,

Free from fears which check'd its thought,

And the pain thy presence brought,

Whispers me the useless lie,--

"For thy love he will not die,

Such pity is but vanity."

And I bend my weary head

O'er the tablets open spread,

Whose fair pages me invite

All I dared not say to write;

And my fingers take the pen,

And my heart feels braced again

With a resolute intent;--

But, ere yet that page be sent,

Once I view the written words

Which must break thy true heart's chords;

And a vision, piercing bright,

Rises on my coward sight,

Of thy fond hand, gladly taking

What must set thy bosom aching;

While too soon the brittle seal

Bids the page the worst reveal,

Blending in thy eager gaze--

Scorn, and anguish, and amaze.

Powerless, then, my hand reposes

On the tablet which it closes,

With a cold and shivering sense

Born of Truth's omnipotence:

And my weeping blots the leaves,

And my sinking spirit grieves,

Humbled in that bitter hour

By the very consciousness of power!

What am I, that I should be

Such a source of woe to thee?

What am I, that I should dare

Thus to play with thy despair,

And persuade myself that thou

Wilt not bend beneath the blow?

Rather should my conscience move

Me to think of this vain love,

Which my life of peace beguiles,

As a tax on foolish smiles,

Which--like light not meant for one

Who, wandering in the dark alone,

Hath yet been tempted by its ray

To turn aside and lose his way--

Binds me, by their careless sin,

To take the misled wanderer in.

And I praise thee, as I go,

Wandering, weary, full of woe,

To my own unwilling heart;

Cheating it to take thy part

By rehearsing each rare merit

Which thy nature doth inherit.

To myself their list I give,

Most prosaic, positive:--

How thy heart is good and true,

And thy face most fair to view;

How the powers of thy mind

Flatterers in the wisest find,

And the talents God hath given

Seem as held in trust for Heaven;

Labouring on for noble ends,--

Steady to thy boyhood's friends,--

Slow to give, or take, offence,--

Full of earnest eloquence,--

Hopeful, eager, gay of cheer,--

Frank in all thy dealings here,--

Ready to redress the wrong

Of the weak against the strong,--

Keeping up an honest pride

With those the world hath deified,

But gently bending heart and brow

To the helpless and the low;--

How, in brief, there dwells in thee

All tht's generous and free,

All that may most aptly move

My Spirit to an answering love.

But in vain the tale is told;

Still my heart lies dead and cold,

Still it wanders and rebels

From the thought that thus compels,

And refuses to rejoice

Save in unconstrainēd choice.

Therefore, when thine eyes shall read

This, my book, oh take thou heed!

In the dim lines written here,

All shall be explained and clear;

All my lips could never speak

When my heart grew coward-weak,--

All my hand could never write,

Tho' I planned it day and night,--

All shall be at length confest,

And thou'lt forgive,--and let me rest!

None but thou and I shall know

Whose the doom, and whose the woe;

None but thou and I shall share

In the secret printed there;

It shall be a secret still,

Tho' all look on it at will;

And the eye shall read in vain

What the heart cannot explain.

Each one, baffled in his turn,

Shall no more its aim discern,

Than a wanderer who might look

On some wizard's magic book,

Of the darkly-worded spell

Where deep-hidden meanings dwell.

Memory, fancy, they shall task

This sad riddle to unmask,--

Or, with bold conjectural fame,

Fit the pages with a name;--

But nothing shall they understand,

And vainly shall the stanger's hand

Essay to fling the leaves apart,

Which bear MY message to THY heart!