Message for Vlad

By Lyubochka Lungu

Message for Vlad

Written 2025-12-24

Vlad,

I want to explain the situation clearly. I live in Romania with my biological father now, after leaving Ukraine. My stepfather continues to interfere in my life: he creates multiple accounts online, blocks my pages, and reacts negatively whenever I share the truth about past abuse. This has affected not only me but also my mother. She recently moved to my father’s home in Transylvania to find some peace.

Because of this ongoing harassment, my mother asks me not to create new accounts online and to keep photos and memories on my new phone. The goal is not to hide, but to preserve safety and peace.

This is not just one dream for 2026. I have many dreams, but my main wish is to finally have peace from the past—not only with you, Vlad, but also with my stepfather—so that everything that happened before no longer controls my life.

I am sharing this so you understand my perspective and the importance of having boundaries and calm in my life.